The Ghee Glee

Bilang isang dakilang LR, it was only yesterday that I learned of this BVness…of this mayhem in my very own paradise. It had started daw with EM not being in PPtechreh, and so the spotted thingy bubbled up. Then I said, “May photo ba?” Well, you can’t really blame me for asking one. Skepticism is second nature to me, if you don’t have proof then there’s no point for being BV. But if you have one (photo), para mo nang-awa ‘wag mong ilalabas yan! Maawa ka! *sabay luhod*

Moving on…

For argument sake let’s say that this “spotted” thing is true. Most adiks would have or had already bash EM and felt sorry for JA. Then again, tama ba ‘to my dear co-adiks? Is this the right way of thinking…of concluding for this so-called “event”? I say NO! Let me elaborate.

We all said that JA is pretty…far from pretty actually. And this is just one of her many girlfriend material traits. That whoever (girl/boy/bakla/tomboy/butiki/baboy) had laid eyes on her will surely love (not just romantically) her. And let me tell you, EM is NO EXEMPTION to that!

Do you honestly think that EM, being a young man, would have not taken notice of JA’s pretty face?

Do you honestly think that EM, being always around her, has not been captured by JA’s personality?

Do you honestly think that EM, being a guy, would not have taken the opportunity with her?

Honestly! Lalaki kaya yun, malamang sa alamang nagkaron yun (EM) ng something sa puso nya.

Has it ever occurred to you that maybe during this duration of their tandem he did tried his luck? And that she had to turn him down because of her priorities? And so his trying to move on?

Has it ever occurred to you that maybe behind those every sweet gesture in the prod (thou sometimes scripted) are unspoken feelings…that behind those sweet words are pure honesty?

Has it ever occurred to you that this “rinirespeto ni EM si JA” (courtesy of Ms. Pia) may also means he respect her decision of being single…of staying single despite the fact that maraming umaaligid sa kanya…kasama na sya (EM).

These are just my thoughts. Maybe they aren’t true or maybe they are. But whatever they maybe, I still think that bashing EM and feeling sorry for JA is just plain wrong. We don’t know what’s behind those cameras (even fancam), so we are not in any position to tell them what not or what to do…what not or what to feel.

JA can have any guy she wants, and so with EM. But of course, I would prefer if they end up together…if they would love each other more than friends. But with what they have right now, I am not complaining. I am satisfied with what I see, feel and hear from both of them.

As I said before and will continue to say, being a fan is not merely supporting her/him, it goes further to respecting them and their decisions. And that’s what I opt to do.

Let’s live by JA words… SpreadTheLove…. SpeadTheJuliElmoLove

…kudos to Ate Rhose (rhose1221) sa pag-update sakin sa mga happenings and Ate Shane (japselmolove) for inspiring me #Akala1&2 …

#MuchLoveFromANewbie